When someone finds out I work from home, I usually get this comment, followed by this question:
That must be nice!
How can I work from home?
It is true--it is nice. I feel so blessed. I believe strongly that I should be at home, raising my children. They are so cute and sweet, and I love and adore them. Just today we played ring around the rosy. Those are moments I don't want to miss. But we also need an income from me. So I must work. Thankfully writing and editing lend themselves well to working from home. Aside from being able to see my kids all the time, we save on day care costs, gas, car upkeep, my wardrobe, eating out, and other expenses.
I have two at home jobs-- one is for a book publishing company (I manage several departments) and the other is for a local business newspaper (I write news stories and take photos).
While working from home is ideal for some, it's definitely not easy. There are days where I am frustrated and overwhelmed. There are always deadlines or issues that need my attention right away. Sometimes I have to ask my kids to be quiet while I make a phone call, or go play in their room while I finish editing something. But then there are days where I can take most of the day off, and we can go to the library, play at the park, visit grandma, or whatever we want to do. I really enjoy the flexibility of working from home in that regard.
That said, in a typical day I.... exercise, make breakfast, go take some photos for the newspaper, get my oldest out the door for school, put in a load of laundry, play with my other two kids, wash a load of dishes, answer my phone, check my work email, edit a manuscript, put my baby down for a nap, help my 3 year old clean up a mess, check more work emails, get something in the mail, water the garden, make lunch, play with the kids, put the two youngest down for a nap, clean up toys, change the laundry, make the beds, organize/update my work spreadsheet, interview someone via the phone, write up a news story, get the kids in the stroller and pick up my son from school, dig in the garden while my kids play outside, get my oldest on task with his homework, make dinner, give the kids a bath, read books, get them ready for bed, tuck them in... then finish any undone work, talk to my husband, maybe watch one TV show with my husband while folding laundry, then collapse in bed. Phew!
Despite the hectic days, I love it. I am the type of person who loves to work and get things done, so working at home "works" for me. I am always motivated to work. In fact, I tend to overwork. It can be challenging finding the right balance between work and play. One of the most important things I do is stick to a
schedule. I have worked both of my jobs at home for about four years, so I know how long most tasks take. So I have scheduled chunks of time (usually when the kids are asleep) and devote that time to work. But I also schedule down time. I try to make sure my family is my priority as much as possible, and I also schedule time everyday for myself, like baths, sewing, exercise, scripture reading, etc.
How did I get my jobs? I worked in the newspaper office part-time for two years. We developed a relationship and I earned their trust while I learned how they operated. Once I had our second baby, I told them I wanted to stay home. They offered to have me work from home. That was four years ago and it has been great. I can do as many stories as I feel I have time for. I have a specific goal each month--if we need extra money then I plan for more. In February I did enough stories to pay to have our daughter's room framed. In March I took a bit of a break and only did a few. We want to drywall our daughter's room, so I will be taking on more work.
For the book publishing company, I was hired as an editor in 2005. I edited one book basically for free. It was fun! It took several months and lots of editing time, but I gained experience and the company saw that I was serious about the work and them, and we developed a relationship. A few years later, a staff position opened up. I applied and had the experience and skills they wanted, so they hired me. That was four years ago. It has been a huge opportunity for me professionally, as I get to do what I love (editing), and I have also realized that I have a knack for management. My boss has been very supportive, she is open to my ideas, and she has a passion for the business that is infectious. Some days are not easy, but most of the time it doesn't feel like work at all. I get paid the same every month, and it basically pays the mortgage.
That is my story. Now, what tips do I have for those of you who want to work from home? Here are some questions to think about:
1. How much money are you looking at making each month? Have a clear goal in mind.

2. What skills and work experience could help you land an at-home job? Writing, real estate, software development, and a number of other skills lend themselves to working from home. There are many others.
3. Are there any companies you already have a relationship with that you could work for from home? Or could you develop a relationship with a particular company? Trust is a big factor in order for a company to have you work from home. They have to know that you will do the job despite lots of possible distractions. You may need to put in a year of work at their office in order to prove yourself. Or you could talk to your current employer and explain the benefits and cost-savings of you working from home.
4. Do you have a strong work ethic? Would the temptation to be lazy/distracted override your need to work? Really think about this. On a given day, would you get up and be excited to work, or would you put it off for another day? Would you spend more time surfing the Internet than getting actual work done?
5. Can you manage your time fairly well? Working from home requires that you live, work, eat, clean, and do it all in the same space. You need to be able to complete tasks and return to work again in a timely fashion.
Working at home is not for everyone. It requires a lot of discipline and long days. But it can be a really positive, ideal situation for you and your family.